Rickrack and Pom Poms

Hello Again

2011-01-27T11:17:00.000-08:00

Wow, I just went back through and read my old blogs! That is a strange thing to do but boy has my life changed. I am very happy now. I guess blogging started as a fun hobby but turned into sort of a therapy thing for me. Anyway happy to report my family...all of them are doing great. I am still working my fun part time jobs but not quite as many hours and I am really enjoying life. I am wondering should I delete all my old post and move on to a brand new happy ones? I will have to ponder that. Hope everyone is doing well out in blogger land. Facebook and twitter have really taken over since I started this so I am not even sure if anybody out there even reads these anymore. But if you do Hello again and I am going to have a cute spring post soon. XOXO Oh by the way this is my 100th post!!! (knew I was holding out for a good one)

Springtime!!!!!!!!!!!!

2010-03-20T17:09:00.000-07:00

Oh how I love Spring weather. Today I planted my window boxes and pots and the kids even helped and cleaned out the gutters. Our yard looks so much better. Next weekend maybe we will even get some pine needles out. Life has been pretty eventful lately but we are geting through it. I got the cutest aidorandack chairs today at Biig Lots (yes Big Lots!!!). They are heavy duty plastic and only cost $15.00 but they are perfect for outdoor summer chairs. Little things make a difference sometimes don.t they. I also cleaned up the inside of my house so I am feeling very accomplished at the moment.
There is a huge Auction/party here tonight and I chose not to go for many reasons. I know it will be fabulous but I was just not in the mood. I have really sweet friends that I could go with and they sincerely wanted me too, but it is still a little awkward, . Anyway looking forward to the Easter Holidsay it will be here before you know it. Love, love this time of year. Have a Happy weekend!!!!!

HAPPY VALENTINES DAY

2010-02-13T14:41:00.000-08:00

Happy Valentines Day to my blogger friends. May all your days be filled with love and happiness. XOXOXOXO!!!!!!!!!!!!

Enough Already

2010-02-02T16:52:00.003-08:00

I am ready for SUNSHINE!!!!!!!!!!! I know I live in the South and we usually have light winters so yes I have enjoyed the snow but once again I live in the South and I want my sunshine back. There is a reason I could never live in the cold cold states. I sure they are lovely but not for me. I think I am just really ready to get back on my routine and get my girl back on hers.

My part time jobs are just that part time jobs, usually very manageable, but when one or the other knows I have some time off from the other they pull me in to work longer hours. It is nice for the extra money but it confuses me as to which way to go. If you understood that sentence good for you, you get how I think. If not I am sorry I just feel discombobulated these days.

A friend of mine told me the other day that her new year did not start until Feb 1 because January had not been such a great month so she decided she wanted to wait and claim 2010 on a good note. I told her that mine 2010 might not strat until March...so I will have a shorter year than most. Seriously I really think that once I get through Feb(not wishing time away, I am just saying) my year will be off to a good start. I am sticking to the Bible Verse that says God Has a Plan for your Life. "For I know the plans I have for you, says the Lord, they are plans for good, not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope." Jeremiah 29:11 (nlt) I remind myself of that everyday. And I am also reminding myself that we don't get snow and sleet that often so I need to relax and enjoy... Whew I feel better!

Enough Already

2010-02-02T16:52:00.001-08:00

Snow Days.....

2010-01-31T16:26:00.000-08:00

We had a great snow here this weekend. I think school is closed tomorrow due to the lingering icy roads. I think the kids love it but I do hope it doesn't take away all of their Spring Break. It has been a very nice relaxing weekend. I did work Saturday at the restaurant my boss picked me up. It felt a little strange working on a snow day. I am used to staying home with kids but it was ok. We baked a lot and had 2 customers. Later in the day I got to spend time with my older daughter and watched a lot of movies together. We went to a friends house for a little visit and then just relaxed at home. K had never seen When Harry met Sally and it had been a really long time since I watched it too. It was so dated but fun to watch.
My son was in and out feels like he lives a different life than we do guess it is just a phase, hope it goes quickly casue I miss his company, but anyway that is another post.
I think I am going to hunker down tonight and watch the Grammy's and polish off some of the snow food I fixed. My high schooler just asked if she could have friends spend the night. I like it when there is a lot going on I guess that is what makes a house a home. Hope you all had great weekends and have a fab week. (could be more snow coming who knows)

Cooking up a storm

2010-01-28T14:25:00.001-08:00

Ok so I think I had a pretty good day today at work. I made, oatmeal cookie dough, lemon squares, sugar cookie dough, red velvet cake, chocolate cake, toffee cookie dough, peanut butter dough, and chocolate chip cookie dough. Did I test a few of these to see if they were good? Maybe a little. I really do like my jobs and I am very lucky to have them. Tomorrow we go to gymnastics with my Preschool class. Life is good.
I am not sure about the snowy weekend, we are right on the line for snow and it has been 60 degrees today so honestly come on spring. But I will take what we get and go with it. Hope to have a good peaceful weekend. I am planning to meet with my girlfriends after work on Saturday for a little wine time. Have not done that in awhile so it will be good to catch up. Enjoy the day!

Crappy Day

2010-01-27T16:44:00.001-08:00

Yes today was a crappy day. I had high expectations and they were shot to heck.
Tomorrow will be better, cause they are calling for snow on Friday and Saturday and I am going to be preparing for it. I get as excited as a child when snow is in the forecast. I watch for the first flake, make soup, brownies, etc... Hope we do get a snowy weekend. You know I am already wishing it was Friday and it is only Wednesday...does that sound like I am wishing time away. I am really trying not to.

I am off to watch Modern Family if it is on seems like maybe the President is speaking tonight. I love modern family it is one of those show that is funny not really laugh out loud til you side hurts funny, but just very amusing. The gay couple is my favorite. I really wish I had neighbors like that what a hoot that would be. Well enough rambling, have a good rest of the week.

Day Off

2010-01-25T09:40:00.000-08:00

We had major rains here last night and due to flooding my high schooler had no school, again! I went to Preschool and was getting ready to start my second job at the catering place. It is a little slow this time of the year so when I got there they asked if I would mind having a day off. Yay for me. I love both my jobs but an unexpected afternoon off is a delight. It is absolutely beautiful here today so I am going to get outside and walk.
Then I will come home and catch up on a few things and just enjoy my day. Life is full of nice unexpected surprises. I may actually get caught up on laundry and fix a decent dinner. Hope your day is a great one.

Southpark

2010-01-24T10:06:00.000-08:00

My 15 year old has a great gig this weekend. She has been asked to go to the Homestead to help babysit. She gets free ski lessons to boot. I have never been there but I have heard wonderful things about it. Well with that said of course we had to go get some essentials for the trip. If you are going to a five star hotel you need to look kinda cute. (honestly we borrowed most of the ski clothing since it would be silly to purchase for one weekend right now) but she has been wanting a pair of grey uggs for some time now so this was a good excuse to get them. Hence the trip to Southpark mall. We rushed into Nordstroms and found the Uggs in the right size and color (miracle!) Then we hit up Dicks for some great glove and hat and etc sales. While we were there she decided that a black Lacoste shirt was really something she needed. Now granted she babysits all the time and could have paid the $79.00 for the shirt but I said no that is ridiculous I can find it for a much better price. That is crazy for a shirt. (I really was not sure if I could but I am too practical for that business) Well low and behold hello ebay I found the perfect one right size right color for 32.00. I am so proud of myself. She too was thrilled!

We did have a fun day being together, those times are fewer and fewer as she get older, will be getting her drivers license in a few months. Independence is a good thing and you can't stop it from happening so I am going to embrace it. With all the hours I am working it will really make me feel good for her to be able to go where she needs to go and not have to wait on me. Remind me I said that in a few months.

It is a rainy Sunday here today, did make it to church and the sermon was good. The minister reminded us that we don't come to church just be fed spiritually we come to be a part of the whole body of Christ. Sometimes I expect too much from our church staff and I have to remind myself the actually church is just a building we go to. Our faith and belief is what our relationship with God is all about. Although I am not gonna lie I do like to fell empowered by a message when I leave.

Well, enough said I am going to make a big baked Ziti casserole for dinner tonight. Oh, just a note college boy has a really weird schedule and does not have class on Friday and Monday Classes do not start til 3:0 on Monday so guess who is staying for dinner? I will have to write a post about him soon.....a lot....a lot has gone on. Miss my sweet K at college but so glad she is happy. If you are reading this I'll cook for you too soon. XOXO
Happy Sunday to all!

Spring Forward

2010-01-23T07:49:00.000-08:00

Well I have not updated my wardrobe in some time so I am going to forget about the new winter looks that did not come my way and look to the future for spring. Here are some things that I think would make me happy. Hey a girl can dream right? This is definitely a work in progress. I think this looks more like a spring collage but you get the idea. Fresh, happy and fun. So many cute things out there.

Cute skirt from LL Bean

Love a good trench, cardigan and precious earrings.

Have no idea where I would wear this top but I love it.

These are my travel bags for who knows where but it is good to be prepared

Everybody needs pink Jack's

Love the tote

I Believe

2010-01-22T18:46:00.000-08:00

Wow it has been such a long time since I have blogged. Good for all of you who have kept it up. I still love reading about you and your fun lives!
I have been going through stuff and can almost see the light at the end of this tunnel. Tpersonal has been a So that is all I am going to say about that, but I believe I may be back to blogging now.
I will give you my new insight on life:
I believe that God has a plan for all of us and I think that you really have to be patient and trusting to figure out what it is. It changes quickly and you have to be listening and trusting for things to work.
I believe that family and friends are very important and they are a gift to be treasured.
I Believe that you have to let people in to help you. To say no to someone because of pride takes a blessing away from them because every one should be allowed to do good things.
I believe that the path you are supposed to follow is not always east but it is there, it may not be the path you would choose but when followed it is a good thing;.
I believe that you should always feel safe and do what you have to to feel that way.
I believe that you should ask for help, it does not mean you are weak.
And last but not least I believe that you should find something to laugh or at lest smile really big about everyday.
Love yourself and your friends and family and just be kind to everyone you can.
Ok that is probably my last deep blog for awhile, on to the silly fun blogs of long ago. I will be back soon.
Love to all and good night.

Wonderful Thnaksgiving

2009-11-29T14:41:00.000-08:00

Wow, we had a great Thanksgiving around here. Went to my mom's on Thursday although I must say she was a little stressed that we were not there by 10:30 but seriously she said be there for lunch, not brunch. I really am a stickler for being on time but I have 3 teenagers and they needed a little sleep. I did too. I had worked at my new job the day before at 5:00 am til closing. Anyway T-Day turned out to be fun and I enjoyed all of my family and all I had to take was sweet potatoes.
My youngest daughter has always asked to go to Concord Mills at midnight for black Friday shopping. I have always said no thank you, but I am really trying to keep up a good holiday spirit around here so this year I said yes. She took 2 friends and some of their relatives followed and I took my older daughter too. It was so fun, and we stayed until around 3:30. Great deals and great fun, Who Knew? Might be a tradition.
I am entertaining this weekend for a church Confirmation brunch so I have been pushed to get the house decorated. Almost there. I have also almost thrown my Christmas Tree on the garbage pile about three times. I finally figured out how to get it in the stand. the plan was for all of us to decorate it together, but I guess somethings change and that did not happen. But I am okay with that. Loved, loved having my children home, this is going to be a different kind of Christmas for all of us but I do believe it will be okay.
Hope you are all enjoying getting ready for the holidays. Happy shopping, decorating, entertaining, and whatever else you do. Hopefully I will post again before Christmas, but if not Have a Merry and Blessed Christmas Season. XOXOXO!

It Feels Like Midnight

2009-11-01T16:21:00.000-08:00

Oh my goodness, I forgot how hard it is to get used to a time change. I was truly thinking about putting on my PJ's when I looked at my watch and realized it was only 6:30!!!!!!!!!!!! Wow, it gets dark early around here. Halloween was fun at our house all my big kids were there for at least some of it. We had droves of trick or treaters. Seriously conversion vans were pulling up to the street and unloading about 25 kids and adults at a time. Poor little neighborhood children never had a chance. Saturday night brings out everybody. Thankfully for me it started raining around 8:15, just the perfect time to run out of candy and turn off the porch light.

Well, one holiday down and two to go. Time to put up the jack o lanterns and pull out the pilgrims.
Have a great week.

Happy Halloween

2009-10-30T19:59:00.000-07:00

I finally put out the Halloween Decorations tonight. I am a little late but since all the kids have grown up it is not a festive as usual. My oldest is going to come home and help me give out candy. We will drink wine on the porch and enjoy ourselves. I have been really busy lately. I started another part time job at a restaurant/ catering business. Love it , love it. the only drawback is the long day. I am sure I will get used to it in time. i am going through some major life changes which maybe I will post about in later. I truly feel like everything is going in the right direction.
You know you think you have your life figured out and then boom it just changes. I really thought I would never be one of those people who had major changes in their life but I guess I am.

I may try to start posting daily again. but I still enjoy everyone's blogs and it is great fun to read about your adventures but I am going to share more soon, promise.

Happy Halloween enjoy the little spooks and goblins, especially if you still have them at home.

It's only Monday and I am ready for the weekend!

2009-09-28T16:47:00.000-07:00

I am planning to go to my daughters college this Saturday for SENIOR yes, Senior night dinner. I have all my clothes laid out, my reservations made and I am working on a place for youngest to stay while I am gone. And now I realize I also have a hair appointment tomorrow, perfect timing. Life is good. Now I just have to get through the next 4 days. Youngest daughter had a bout with the flu and then a sinus infection to boot. So I am hoping that we all stay healthy for awhile. As you know I am a Preschool teacher and I love my job but is is like working in a cesspool of germs. I am debating getting a flu shot. I have the last two years and it worked, so I guess I will this year too.
I am pretty sure there is no one that reads my blog that doesn't read Clemsons Girls, because she has lots of followers, but take a look at ther blog she and her son are doing a great thing for an elementary school in GA that got flooded.

Well I believe it is time to list my 10 favorite things in life right now as I need to remind myself that my life is okay, so here goes, read or not.........................

1. My precious children
2. My loving and caring friends
3. My faith that God is in control of my life(actually that is reall #1 but I don't want to retype)
4. My job and co-workers
5. My migraine medicine
6. Fall weather in NC
7. Diet Sundrop
8. My porch
9. Blue Jeans when they fit just right
10. My hopes and dreams.
That's it pretty simple for now but it makes me feel grateful.
Have a great week all.
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Random Day

2009-09-11T17:23:00.000-07:00

Well things are getting back to normal and everybody seems pretty happy. So that is good. I had a visit to Duke today, just a routine visit as I have had some issues with mammograms and stuff, but all is well. My doctor there is like an angel on earth. Truly she is the most patient, clam, caring person I do believe I have ever had the pleasure of knowing. It is so refreshing to know people like that still exist.
Anyway I got to have dinner with my college girl what a treat she is doing great her senior year. When I got back college boy stopped by for about 1/2 a minute and off to see friends at a college about an hour away. I think he is adjusting well now. Thank God I knew he would but that first few weeks is tough. My high school girl is at the football game. I opted out on that one tonight. Tomorrow she has a Cross Country meet at 9:00 in the AM so I will go cheer for that.

Also today my doctor told me I was a thin woman, so I told her she made my day cause really I could lose 10 pounds but it made me feel less guilty about eating that row of oreos and glass of milk just now.

Really have nothing exciting to blog about but just thought I would keep in touch.
Have had a big bout with allergies but at least we have all stayed clear of the swine flu for now. That stuff is really going around here. Hope you all have a great weekend!!

Home Sweet Home

2009-08-26T12:36:00.000-07:00

Well, I was wrong!!! If you read my post you will see that I moved my son to college, well without telling all I will share just a bit. Saturday- move in, unpack,(meetings, drive away, can tell he is a little nervous but this is the friendlist, kindest boy you will ever meet so I am not worried. I did shed some tears but they were for me.
Sunday-calls home roomate never showed up, really really sweet on the phone, has met a few people it is okay. Monday-Get a text, mom I am coming home to get TV, (this is the kid I did not think I would see til Christmas. )Anyway to make a long story a little shorter, Tuesday went to the Soccer tryouts and had to go get a physical, got lost for two hours trying to find way back to school (will be giving him my navigation thingy). Hanging on for classes to start on Wednesday, oh schedule change-no class on Wednesday and still no roommate. I guess there was just a little too much dead time between Saturday and Wednesday. He doesn't know anybody there and is a little shy around strangers. (I guess boys are different, girls would be walking up and down the halls meeting and greeting)

Let me just say my heart was breaking for him, I stayed strong and encouraged, he will be fine, he is trying out for soccer today, (say a little prayer if you will). But the best thing out of all of this is that I actually saw my son in a different light than I had seen him in years. He has to endure a lot through the past three years due to Dad stuff and I thought his kind spirit had left him. I did not realize how used to his braveness and hard hardheadedness, and just general teenager stuff I was. What a joy for me to see how much love he has in his heart for us,.... his family. I know that may sound selfish but it was kind of a blessing that we connected again and he realized he can rely on others to help him get through the rough spots. God really does know what he is doing when we stop to listen. I know in my heart to cherish this time cause once he gets into the groove I will wish he was back.
Man this has been a long week, and it is only Wednesday!!!!!

Ebay

2009-08-26T12:29:00.000-07:00

Hi frriends,
I have got some good lilly on ebay if you are interested. Great for college girls and I will be listing more soon. If you have any questions plese ask. PS I am cleaning out closets.
EBAY

Big Day Tomorrow

2009-08-21T15:30:00.000-07:00

Well tomorrow I am moving my son to college. I am very happy he is going but I will miss him so much. I have gotten used to my daughter being away, but she keeps in touch, we talk everyday and she comes home to visit. I am afraid once my son is gone he will be gone. Boys are just different. But this is how it is supposed to be. Say a little prayer for me that everything goes well. (and that I can get out of there before the tears start cause that would just be embarrassing for everyone). Hopefully he will get to play on the soccer team and that is a great excuse to go up for a short visit. I know I have said this before, but if you have little ones enjoy the time you have because it really really does fly by. Have a great weekend.

Painful Day

2009-08-19T14:15:00.000-07:00

Ok this is a post with probably TMI, so read at your own risk. Yesterday I got up and ran all over town to find a refridg, microwave etc... for college boy who leaves Saturday. I was having a pretty good day feeling like I had accomplished a lot. I even got a phone call from the Volvo place saying they were giving me a warranty on something that really was not under warranty. (to the tune of hundreds of dollars) Thank you Lord! So anyway about 5:00 I started getting a dreaded migraine, took my medicine and kept moving on, then about 6:00 I started getting this really strange cramp in my lower stomach. I am not going to put all the details in here but turns out to be a bladder infection. Never had one before in my life. Lucky for me one of my best friends husband is a urologist so I hate to call on people at home, but I did. The pain was gawd awful. So I go to their house around 10:00 and get some medicine. By 2:00am the pain had subsided some. Let me just tell you if you think you ever have one of these coming on, go get medicine quickly. It really, really hurts. So I am better today, and so thankful there is no pain. I spent a lot of time at the lake this past weekend and went skiing and tubing with the girls. I do remember when I wiped out on the ski I was thinking it felt like what I think an enema would feel like. Wonder if that had anything to do with it? All I know is no more lake time for me for a while. I warned you this was a TMI post! Have a good Wednesday.

Summer is about over

2009-08-11T18:19:00.000-07:00

Wow, has it been busy around here. K came home from New York, I wouldn't even let her unpack her bags. We moved her stuff to her house at college yesterday. (yes it was the hottest day of the year). I am so glad she is home even if it is just for a bit. Now I am trying to get S ready for college, I am typing this on his new MAC computer. It is the coolest. It was his grad and bday present. I scrapped and saved to get it for him and i am so glad I did. He really appreciates it and even lets me use it. Dear God don't let him drop i tor get it wet. (he has had at least 10 cell phones due to those reasons) I think it is pretty durable. K is still here for a week and S for another 2 weeks. So funny my daughter filled up my car to the brim with all of her stuff for this school year and still has more to go. My son has 2 yes 2 plastic containers for college and that is it. Little S is starting cross country practice and I have two weeks off from summer preschool until I start back. Life is interesting to say the least.

Summertime seems to go really slow for about 2 weeks and then BAM it is over. They already have Halloween stuff out at Marshalls, a little too early even for me.

Hope everyones summer has been filled with laughter and sweet memories. That is what it is all about.

Concert Night

2009-08-06T16:58:00.000-07:00

I am very excited I am going to Coldplay tomorrow night, should be fun. Also my girls is coming home from New York so it is a BIG weekend. Have a great one yourself!

WOW

2009-07-30T15:04:00.000-07:00

I cannot believe it has been such a long time since I have posted. Is anybody still out there who would read this??

Well there is know way to fill you in on all of my summer so I will hit the highlights:
The best part of my summer was going to Hazard Kentucky for a youth mission trip. We built a frame House in a week. The kids were amazing as always. My youngest got to go which was such an waesome bonus. I really think she enjoyed it, at one point she said, why don't we have this much fun at home? (Well, that is something to think about. When you are doing work like this it is just like you listen harder to God and amazing things always happen. We met some great people very earnest is the word I would use. Of course there is a funny story to go along with this. At the end of our trip we decidied to go White Water rafting. I thought this would be pretty cool and quite the bonding experience. Well we pulled up to the outfitters and I thought HMMMMM this looks a little sketchy. It was. The water was too low to raft so they suggested that we all take out a funyack. (Not Fun At All). The guide said his 9 year old daughter could do this. In hindsight,I should have asked if his grandmother could too. Lond story short we were on the river 5 yes 5 hours. I got stuck on every damn rock in the river and was always back of the pack. Along the way there were fishermen on the river banks kinda like Deliverence in my mind and did the offer to help...no they laughed at me. I will never be humiliated again because I have lost that part of myself. At the end there was one waterfall/rapid if you went down straight you were fine, a little crooked and you were turned over. You guessed it I went down crooked and was thrown from the FunYack. It was a ver peaceful feeling with the boat on top of me and the lifejacket over my face, I thought maybe this was it. (And I was kinda thatnkful). Then all of the sudden I popped out of the water to see my whole group sitting high and dry in their little boats. Nobody else had hit the rapid crooked. Well I got over it quickly and now I laugh about it. But honestly if anyone ever offers you a funyak ride or a ride in a Ducky run as fast as you can.

The goood news is that after that was over and we wereshowered and dressed we went to a PF Changs in Asheville and had a wonderful dinner. All 19 of us got something different and we shared a lot. It was a great trip and something I will never forget.

July 4th

2009-06-19T12:35:00.000-07:00

The Fourth of July has always been a fun holiday for my family. Sometimes a dangerous holiday because every man and boy thinks they know how to light fireworks but there is always a mishap. A burning tree or a misdirected firework that shoots into a gas can, that by the way was on a porch full of people. Or there was the time when the floats were left on the porch and while we were all ooowwing and awwing over the fireworks grandma slipped on the float and almost broke her back, but other than that it is fun. One year we even had an Elvis impersonator. (Thinkng back on that he was really strange, not my idea) We finally got wise and now we take the boats out to watch the fireworks on the lake, this works well if the storms hold off. Maybe instead of saying it is fun I should say it is adventerous. Anyway it will be here before we know it:
So with that on my mind,
If I was gonna have a July 4th Party I would send out one of these:

And maybe I would serve this:

Of course everyone would bring a covered dish cause that's just what you do on the 4th!

My backyard and table would have these decorations:

And of course there would be lots and lots of these:
And these are the things I probably wouldn't have but to each his own:

Also, I would like this to be my house for the day:
or this:
And last but not least this would be the most fun.

I better get busy it will be here soon!

Clean House

2009-06-17T15:49:00.000-07:00

I have just finished cleaning my house from top to bottom. I hate to clean but there is no better feeling than to have everything nice and orderly. I was thinking wouldn't a bouquet of fresh flowers look nice in my kitchen and about that time my 15 year old and her friend came driving up in the golf cart bearing gifts for me. They had ridden around the golf course and picked a flower from all the neighbors yards and brought them to me. Kinda cool how we were thinking the same thing and kinda not so coll that they were stealing flowers. Apparently there are some pretty good flower gardens around here. I thin it should be a weekly thing, don't you? (just kidding)

Today is packing day for camp, once again I want to be organized about it, daughter does not. We almost have it done and you know what it is her suitcase and her stuff so whatever I let go of the control and she did ok. We went for a run to WalMart for all the travel stuff. Little things sometimes make me so happy. They have the DOWNY spray in a mini size. If you have never used this wrinkle releaser you should try it. Especially all of you with tiny childrens cotton summer clothes. Honestly all you do is spray it on the garment and shake and pull a little and the wrinkles are gone. I have not ironed in ages. Love it, love it.

My son is working and getting a paycheck... that also makes me very happy. He actually has to get to sleep at a decent hour and is out of the house by 9 am. He likes it too especially the money.
Tomorrow we go to his college for orientation. It will be a long day because he takes all the placement test and registers for classes. It will be interesting.

As for my NYC girl, well hello she went private and do you think she gave Mom an invite? NO! Shameful, I am sure it was an oversight..... Anyway maybe best I don't know everything. (just kidding)I am going up Thursday for a long weekend visit. I am looking forward to getting on an airplane and flying away from here for awhile. S will be at camp and other S will be at the beach with family friends so no worries on the homefront.

Oh by the way graduation went perfect and I am so proud. Never knew how relieved and happy and sad I could be all at the same time.

Next post something fun..I promise and I mean it this time.

Crazy Day

2009-06-10T19:17:00.000-07:00

So here is the not perfect day, My sister in law invited S and two of her friends to come and spend the night at the lake with her and stay the next day. Sounds good so far, well I said great I will pick them up after work. (which ended up with 30 4 year olds!!!) So I get to the lake after an SOS call. Sister in law had forgotten to tell my 15 year old daughter that she was hosting a party for 30 high school girls and boys the same day. Needless to say my daughter was just a little intimidated. So I go rolling in and take them to lunch try to get our Sea Doo in and of course it does not work. It was kinda like I was getting ready for the summer with no notice. You know for things to go smoothly at a lake house a little planning is needed and gas and food and keys to everything....... Other sister in law was there with a working pontoon boat. So I said get the hell on the boat and lets get on the water away from the madness. I did not really say get the hell.... but I wanted too.

After dinner, party giving sister in law apologizes and ask girls to spend one more night, of course they said yes because they are teenagers and wanted another adventure (and she has a pool for midnight swimming) This sends me packing because it was not in my plans to spend the night....teenage boy at home!!! so I go treaking down the dark country raod home. When I tell you I was in the worst storm I have ever seen in my life I am not lying. I have never said the Lord's Prayer so many times in my life!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! But I made it and Grandma brought the girls home to day. Which I am sure you are thinking well that's sweet, well Grandma really shouldn't be behind the wheel. Don't knew whose idea that was. I do love my sis in laws they have boys and love to dote on my girls, I just like to be organized and have somewhat of a plan and it is okay with them not to be.

Now I am going to take a deep breath and really get ready for summer and lake days even though the lake is not my favorite thing . ( I like to see the bottom of what I am in)I do not know why everyone can't just live at my pace and things would be ready when they are ready,( yes I know that sounds a little self-centered) but I should know by now that teenagers really don't live at anyone's pace but their own. But I still love them. Whew!

Oh and tomorrow is Graduation breakfast so my friend M and me decorated church today for 220 kids tomorrow. Lots of tablecloths, balloons chairs, decorations, but that was really fun.
Graduation of Friday I am excited!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

MISS HER!!

2009-06-08T19:11:00.000-07:00

I miss my girl. I am so happy she is in NYC but lordy knows it is quiet around here it's not like she hasn't been at college for 3 years, I am used to her being gone, but anyway i am substituting tomorrow and that will be fun. Then off to the lake in the afternoon, back to decorate for a high school graduation breakfast. Then who knows what. I guess I could clean my house but no I think it is good. By the way S spilled pickle juice all over suede sofa, anyway to get that stink out?
I think I promised an interesting post soon. oooops need to get on that. til then have a great week all.

Fun Weekend Plans

2009-06-05T08:53:00.000-07:00

By now you all know we are in the throes of Graduation around her. Tonight nothing thank goodness because it is a floody mess around here. I have never seen such rain in a long time. Tomorrow night we are getting together with a few close family friends to honor our graduates with a cookout, Sunday is Bacculauretee (?) Sunday with a church family lunch afterwards. Monday is final exam day and Friday is graduation. S got a summer job at the City Park so glad his time will be filled this summer. Idle time is a dangerous thing for a teenage boy! K is having a blast in NYC I am going up in 3 weekends all by myself as Little S will be at YL camp then. I am very excited!!! Hope you all have a pleasant weekend. I keep reading about all the deals you all are finding at TJ Maxx and I am dying to go on a shopping spree but I am trying to hold off. We will see how that goes! Have happy and fun weekends. My next post is going to be something clever and entertaining for you. Enough about me for awhile.

A Little Inspiration Needed

2009-06-03T15:04:00.000-07:00

Here are a few quotes I needed today. And by the way wouldn't you just loved to have met Ghandi and/or Mother Teresa. Hard to believe anyone person could be so wise.

Drag your thoughts away from your troubles... by the ears, by the heels, or any other way you can manage it. ~Mark Twain

“There is nothing that wastes the body like worry, and one who has any faith in God should be ashamed to worry about anything whatsoever”

Mahatma Gandhi

I know God will not give me anything I can't handle. I just wish that He didn't trust me so much.
Mother Teresa

"Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God which transcends all understanding will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. [Philippians 4:6, 7]"

Good Monday

2009-06-01T09:00:00.000-07:00

Got my hair highlighted this morning. That always makes me feel so much better about my look. Lunch with Sister-in-Law in a bit, kids at school for a few more days, Oldest is happy in NYC so I am happy here. So far so good, it is a beautiful day and I hope nothing ruins it.

I do not believe I have posted about my neighbors yet, have I? First I must say they are nice enough people. I think I mentioned once before that they cut down 70 + trees when they moved in next door.( Wife is allergic to pine trees, I am thinking the state tree of NC is pine, might should have taken that into consideration) We have no privacy I mean none. Anyway I have taken the high road they put up with my teenagers late hours and noise so I put up with their girls in my yard with their friends, riding their scooters, using my hammock, almost jumping on our old trampoline(put a stop to that, Hello lawsuit) asking for food and drink, you get the picture. Well the other day neighbor man was plowing up a plot of land, keep in mind we do not live in the country and our yards are very exposed. I thought , Oh how tasteful I bet he is putting in a rose garden, no he is planting every vegetable known to man right beside our driveway. I love gardening as much as the next person. If I could just post a picture you would understand. Let's just say if his cantaloupe or beans start to trail they will be in our driveway and I can't promise my kids and friends won,t run over them. This fellow has a pretty big yard with lots of space. I cannot fathom why he would plant right at the road for all to see. (Does anyone else ever wonder if the people you write about could read this blog?) Now all we are waiting for is the humongous blow up pool to go up next. I know I probably sound snobby and I am not, its just a little too much activity right next door. I would put up a fence but there is probably an inch to put it in next to our driveway. Guess I will just keep making nice and hope for some fresh produce. I would not be a bit surprised if we didn't wake up to a Farmer's Market around 6 am Saturdays when the garden starts producing. Oh and instead of a tractor he parks his truck in the back yard and plays his tunes while he works. Its not bad just different. The neighbor who lived there before was 92 so he was a lot quieter.
Well, off to lunch and errands ...............

Summer Days Long Gone

2009-05-30T13:48:00.001-07:00

Well my girl is off to NYC, little sis and I took her to the airport this morning. I already miss her so much, she was home for three weeks before she left. Yes there were days when I was ready to put her on a plane early, mostly because being in a small town it gets a little boring for a fun young adult, especially when there is no one to hang out with. We had some fun times, especially now that she is legal. Nice dinners and glasses of wine, good walks, and lots of long talks. I a going to make my reservations to go and see her soon!!!. My son is all about hanging out with his friends, which is fine as ling as they occasionally hang out somewhere besides here, my 15 year old has turned into a typical teenager(for some reason I did not see that happening to her) it is all about her, friends, clothes and school. I guess you could say they are very normal.
But you know what I want right now (because it is all about me!!) a little friend who is happy to play in the backyard, go to the pool and ride with me to get ice cream and silly stuff like that. I am telling you if you are reading this and you have little children, cut off the computer and go play, time goes by too fast, I promise you that. But anywho I am going to get off my seat and go walk the dog. It is one of the prettiest days we have had in a long time.
I start back to preschool in 3 weeks I think I will be ready. Have a good weekend and enjoy your families and friends.

Prom Night

2009-05-23T10:34:00.000-07:00

Yes tonight is my son's senior prom. I must say compared to my daughters this very low key. No nails, hair, spray tan, make-up or jewelery drama. All I have to do is show up at the park for pictures. It should be fun. Apparently there are 40 people going in a (bus) limo out to dinner. It is kinda sad this is his last one, but sort of a good feeling too.
If all goes well I am off to a friends 50th b-day party after pictures. That should be fun. Last weekend I went to a 50th birthday that was also a theme party. Now let me ask you when I think of the 1960's (that was the theme, sort of a hairspray theme) I think of elegant Jackie O or something along thoses lines. Many folks there were dressed like hippies, all well and good except from one rude woman looked at my friend and me and said I thought this was 60's not 50's. Kinda rude, but I could have told her well I wasn't really old enough too remember unlike you but I didn't. I had on a cute yellow dress I got from ebay, my girls did my hair which was huge and my make -up. It was fun. I am not a huge fan of theme parties but after a little wine I guess they are quite fun.
I am finished with Preschool for awhile and we had our end of year program which went great much better than rehearsals so all is well. I plan to get my oldest daughter off to New York next weekend, then get my son through graduation in June and enjoy summer.
By the way, we live near a Banana Republic Outlet and did a little shopping yesterday. When I tell you they have great deals and beautiful clothes, believe me. EVERYTHING is 40% off. Anne Taylor and the loft had some pretty good stuff too. Memorial Day seems to be a good time for sales. Who Knew? Well I have done my part to boost the economy.
Off to check the weather forecast, it is looking a little cloudy, hope it does not rain on our parade tonight. I may post pics later.
Good weekend to all.

Mother's Day

2009-05-06T12:21:00.000-07:00

Well, I am off to shop for Mother's Day gifts and graduation gifts. Luckily we have two cute shops downtown to choose from. I think I will stick with great lotions, soaps and bath items for the mom's. This is something you can never have enough of and you never but it for yourself. I love the Gold Leaf Hydrangea myself(but It is not for me , I must remember that when I am shopping). I have made some really cute laundry bags for the girl grad gifts, (I will try to post a pic soon) as for the boys, I think money is always the best choice for them.

We are wrapping up Preschool, only three more weeks, working on end of year program and books and parties. It is busy, busy. My oldest child is off to live in NYC this summer, my middle child is about to graduate high school, ( still have the prom to go.) My youngest is driving with a permit. (be so glad when that is over, that is my least favorite parenting job). May is an incredibly busy time. I need to remember to enjoy each day and not dread anything. Each day is a gift and it is gone in a flash. (little pep talk to myself)

Hope you all are having a great week. Still love your post even though mine are pretty uneventful at the moment I will get creative again soon.

I Love Marshall's

2009-04-06T10:50:00.000-07:00

I celebrated my first day of Spring Break by visiting my local Marshall's and of course I made a purchase. Albeit a small one but I am thrilled. I found a pair of Havaianas for $7.50. they are a cute gold bronze color. Now all I need to do is get a Pedicure to go with these cute flops. I do not really have any big plans for the week. Teenage son is heading down to Florida as I type. He goes with family friends ever year to Seaside. I hear it is beautiful and yes I am a little envious. After my whirlwind weekend in NYC I am actually glad to be home. We accomplished our goal of finding housing this summer but dear lord it was SSSSTTTRREESSFFUULL!!!!!!!!!!!! But now that it is done I think everything will work out great. I am thinging of giving my youngest daughter a room redo this week. I mean her brother is in Florida, her sister is going to be living in NYC this summer I do beleive she deserves a little something. So I imagine I will be hitting a lot of Target's, Marshall's, TJ MAxx and our new IKEA this week. I will let you know if I find andy amazing deals. Oh by the way Marshall's does have some pretty cute Lilly (mostly capris and tops) and some nice Vineyard Vines shits and shorts for men. Have a Happy Week!!!

Off to NYC!!!

2009-03-26T14:21:00.000-07:00

I am off to New York City tomorrow night. I am flying up with younger daughter to meet older daughter. My sis in law is meeting us there too. Should be a fun weekend. We are apartment hunting and older daughter is meeting with employers. After all that is taken care of I am going to have a nice glass of wine and dinner and RELAX. I am excited about going. Only drawback, my very best friend in the world had a little minor surgery Monday which should have been very simple. Well, she is now running a fever and has some type of infection. I love her like a sister and really am torn about leaving without her being better. But, I have rallied our mutual friends to take care of her and I am saying my prayers. It's just an airplane ride home if need be Right??? I always get a little up tight before I travel, I guess I don't do it enough. I think once I am in the plane I will be fine. I have my teenage son staying with some friends most of the time I am gone....it is that other time that is a little worrisome. But you know what it will just have to be okay.
My daughters roommate and mom are going also, they are alot of fun. Should be a great time and I will deal with the real world when I get back Monday. Til then...........................

Eater is my favorite

2009-03-13T17:43:00.000-07:00

While I sit here with this gloomy weather, I am thinking about good things to come. My favorite holiday is Easter, (yes, it is not Christmas) I love springtime and all that Easter represent, religiously and traditionally. Many, many happy Easter memories for me. I have found some really cute Easter and Spring decorations. It never hurts to spruce up the home or attitude. Happy weekend to you all may spring be here soon. (By the way all of these cute items can be found at one of my favorite sites Room Service.)

I really love these hand towels, pom poms are too cute.

These would be perfect for little feet on Easter Morning.

These would be perfect for me on every morning. 100% cotton so soft.

I wouldn't mind putting my to do list on these.

New Easter decor is always fun.

I know Lillian Vernon can have some different things(Borderline tacky) but their Easter stuff is really cute and very affordable. Check it out. I was also looking at the Horchow site, I used to love it when this mail order catalog came to my door but after a quick peek, either I have gotten way to festive and colorful in my middle years or they are just a bit too drab and fru fru to me.
Last but by no means least check out this great bakery for some delicious Easter cupcakes or better yet St. Patricks day. Use whatever excuse you need. This is in NC, I know there are great bakeries everywhere we even have one in this sweet little town.

Honest to Goodness if you only knew how long it took me to create this simple post. It is fun and I will be back soon. Maybe tommorrow if it is still dreary weather, until then.........

It's been a while

2009-03-08T17:57:00.000-07:00

Wow, time flies, I can't believe how long it has been since I blogged. What a fantastic week I had. My college girl came home for Spring break and we had a great visit. My baby girl is turning 15 tomorrow and may get her drivers permit and my senior son got into college. So all in all life is good. I am so ready for spring, but my wardrobe is not. I am having trouble finding clothes for me. I am not old or young, just in the middle and it is hard to find clothes. I need to find that perfect store. I have a crazy busy week I am gonna try to get back into blogging more often.

I love daylight savings time but it can fool you into thinking the night is young when really it is bedtime. It will take a little getting used to. Well, hope you all have a good week.

Chcolate Turles are the Best

2009-02-12T17:59:00.000-08:00

I have just been glued to my chair catching up on everyone's blogs. Wow, I have missed a lot. I love reading about what is going on in everyones lives and I have missed ya'll. My life is going okay. I am in kinda of a weird place with some family situations but it will be okay. Good news, my son has been accepted to a college he is pleased with. Yey!! My daughter loves, loves, loves high school (she is only a freshman), my other daughter is doing great in college and has a good focus on life. So sweet and fun.

I had all of my parent teacher conferences today at Preschool. You know I never say anything but nice things to parents unless it is necessary because their little darlings are only 4 and 5 years old and the parents adore them. (as they should), so I figure why bust their bubble with trivial things that really do not make a difference. Most of the stuff they will outgrow anyway.

I have a really part time job at a Veterans home it is quite the opposite of Preschool. I will blog about that later it is different. But I am not complaining because I have two pt jobs and some poor souls are having a tough time finding any work.

Well, the weather here has been absolutely beautiful and I am soooo ready for Springtime. It just makes you feel good.

Oh, my big, big, news I got Coldplay tickets today to surprise my almost 15 year old for her birthday. I even got a few extra for her friends so she will really be happy she's not just going with me.. Of course I got an extra one for me to take a Friend too. Fun for all.....

I love reading your blogs, hope you have a fabulous weekend and a Happy Valentines Day. I have decided if I don't get candy I am gonna by myself a big ole box of chocolate turtles!!!

Washington, DC

2009-01-26T14:20:00.000-08:00

Hi all,
Just got back from a mission trip to DC. Took 20 youth with 4 other advisers to help the homeless. It was a great experience and I am so glad I went. We assisted in feeding over 600 people in just one morning. Great volunteer opportunities the whole time we were there. Don't know if any of you ever want to be involved in something like this(we were there for 4 days) but if you do I would love to pass the info along to you and give you more details. The "fun" part of our trip was a dinner out at Clyde's and a night tour of the monuments. It was a little chilly but a beautiful tour.
Now I am back at home. I am still teaching Preschool but have picked up another part time job too so I am super busy some days. We are about to wrap up senior sons college apps so that will be a relief. Maybe soon I will get back to my fun blogging days. Until then ........

I can run!!!

2009-01-08T10:30:00.000-08:00

Well, who knew? I decided to go walk 4 miles at the Y and as I was listening to some music a great song came on and I had the urge to run around the track. I have never been a runner and I really did not think I had it in me. But I did. Ran a lap, walked a lap. Keep in mind it is 48 laps around the track to equal a mile. I probably did walk more than I ran but I am going to keep it up. The best part is I was not even sore today!! so I have decided to order myself an early B-Day present. Here it is:

The blue is my favorite color. Well I know it is kinda random that I just hopped back into the blogging world but maybe I will be back soon. I do have some interesting stories for you all.
I had forgotten how much drama there is in the life of a teenage girl! Make me glad to be my age. Have a great weekend.

Checking My List

2008-12-11T17:16:00.000-08:00

Hi All,

Quick post for you
I have been following my checklist because I can't keep everything in my brain these days. I think I am doing pretty good.
1. Finished shopping for my sweet children.(did a ton online it was so easy and the sales are really good. I got some awesome deals from J Crew)
2. Lights are up on the tree, no decorations but they are coming,
3. Candles are in the windows
4. Santa is on the porch.
5. Lights are on the bushes (well, they are not plugged up yet, but they will be soon)
6. Some gifts are wrapped.
7. Cards are not sent ( I just don't have the notion to send them this year.)
8. Christmas Youth Party is going to be here on Sunday night (so I guess I better quit posting and get to cleaning.
9. Everyone is still sane with all the holiday madness
10. I only have 6 more school days and then off for a while.
11. Applied for another part-time job pray I get it.
12. My attitude is better and I am going to try to be positive and do for others. It just makes you feel better.

So maybe I am back to posting, I am still checking in and reading yours and they make me smile!! Happy Days to all.

It's been fun....

2008-11-30T17:12:00.000-08:00

Well, blogger friends I have loved blogging and reading yours but my life is a little crazy right now. I am kinda hanging on by a thread. I am sure it will get better. No health issues for me just some family stuff that is too personal to post. So for now I am just going to be a reader if time allows and I probably won't be blogging for awhile. I wish you a happy happy holiday season and will post again if things ever settle down. Love to all......

So Proud!!

2008-11-25T17:49:00.000-08:00

Always and forever my favorite cake has been a caramel one. I just succeeded in making one. I have tried for years to replicate my Grandmother's cake, and I did it. Granted it is not the most perfect looking one but it is delicious. I used a recipe from Paula Deen. She's the best. I doubt it will make it to the Thanksgiving table because it will be gone by then.
Hope you all have a very Blessed Thanksgiving filled with great food and family. I am looking very forward to Thursday. But first things first, tomorrow is the Big Christmas Parade. Such Fun!!! I am ready for the season. Have a great week.

P.S. My high school reunion is Saturday night, I sure I will have a lot to post about!!!!

Party Time

2008-11-21T17:16:00.000-08:00

Excuse my lapse in blogging. We are hosting the last time forever a team soccer party. Everyone is bringing something and I am picking up the Bar-B-Que Saturday. There will be about forty people here. I promise to get back to regular posting soon. Well, I kinda promise, the holidays are busy, but usually they hold good stories. Love reading your blogs still!!! Have a great weekend.

It Was Fun While It Lasted

2008-11-13T15:43:00.000-08:00

Well we did not win the soccer game last night, but it was a great season and my son was on the front page of the sports page. (Do you think I am a proud mama?) I realized that it was not so much that I was sad we lost I was sad because it is my last senior high soccer game. I will miss them and all of the good times. We may have a team party next weekend at our house, should be fun.
My favorite Japanese restaurant reopened tonight after a fired closed it for a year. So my daughter and I met one of her friends and mom to have dinner. It was great but I do believe that the shrimp sauce really makes you feel icky after you eat too much. I have got to start cooking more at home and eating out less. It gets expensive and during this economic whatever we are in I could save some bucks.
We had a discussion at work about the ways to save money and some of the suggestions were interesting:
Use the same towel all week (Do any of you do that?)
Wash clothes with only cold water (Might try that one)
Turn down the hot water heater to shorten kids long showers (Just don't tell them)
Use the energy efficient light bulbs (that one is easy)
Buy gas and put it in cans when it is cheap (I don't ever do that and probably never will)
What ideas do you clever gals have. I would love to know.

I have been tagged and bestowed awards by a few people and I promise to work on that soon I thank you, thank you I really appreciate it but it takes me a while to respond and pass them on.

I do remeber that I was tagged to list 7 strange or random facts about myself so that I can do

1. I am obsessed about being late, I would rather be 30 minutes early than 5 minutes late. When I was a little girls I would walk to school (we lived close) and get there before they had a chance to call it off for snow. My great aunt would have to come and track me down and bring me home.

2. I drink Diet Sundrop everyday, and it is like my Coffee.

3. I think when you get on your knees and pray to God it is much better. ( usually I am feeling a desperate need to communicate with him then)

4. I have know idea what my real hair color is anymore. Far as anyone knows it is Blonde, always has been, always will be.

5. I really can not drink more than 2 glasses of wine or the room starts spinning (pitiful, I know)

6. I like children much more than I like adults. (and not in a weird way, they are just way more entertaining and honest, and fun)

7.If I set my mind to it I could honestly eat a dozen hot Krispy Kreme doughnuts in about 15 minutes.

If you have not been tagged to do this, feel free.

Yey Soccer Team

2008-11-09T17:39:00.000-08:00

We won, we won, now it is on to the final four. Another game Wednesday night and we will see what happens after that. I know God does not care who wins this game, but I am throwing up a prayer anyway. Please, please.....

Hope everyone has a great Monday, we are out of school Tuesday, and while I enjoy a day off wouldn't it have made more sense to be off on Monday and make that a legal holiday for the veterans. (God love them!!!) Anyway I am off to get my hair highlighted tomorrow so that is always a great pick me up. Might get a flu shot too if I remember it. I have got to get some cute notepads cause I always have a long to do list and it seems to be longer than my memory!

Great Fall Day

2008-11-08T06:41:00.000-08:00

Yey, I have finished painting my dining room, reworked my curtains, and I am getting ready to cover the chairs. It feels like I have a new room. I have missed blogging and reading yours. I just got back from a walk, it is the most beautiful fall day here. The leaves are amazing. We are all heading up to the mountains today for a soccer game. My son's team is in the 4th round playoff game for the State Championship. We are excited!!! I guess it really is the little things in life that make it fun. I have begun to try to be thankful for what God gives me everyday and to make the most of it. It is very east to fell tired and run down when you try to solve all of life's problems but when you let them go and let God handle things, it works out much better. I may have posted these thoughts before but maybe I just needed to remind myself.
On a lighter note, I bought myself the cutest pair of suede clogs yesterday with fleece lining. I found them at Cato ( yes it is that cheap clothing store at the mall) I was looking for earrings with teen daughter when i stumbled across them. They should be toasty for tonight. At another inexpensive store (Payless) I saw some really cute moccasins but I passed on them. You can tell our mall is kinda pitiful, but sometimes you find the unexpected. I am ready for a good shopping spree soon. It is time to update the turtlenecks, sweaters and jeans.
Hope everyone has a great weekend!

Time Change

2008-11-03T14:36:00.001-08:00

Well, I have not finished painting yet, but it will get done before Thanksgiving. This time change has thrown me for a loop. I love the daylight hours but I do not like the darkness at 6:00. Tomorrow is the day to VOTE get out and do it. I am feeling like I am the only person I know who has not voted early. I think I know who I am going to vote for but I am still pondering on a few. It will be interesting. This was a great weekend. My son's soccer team is in the running for State Title. So exciting, they won the last game by one point in overtime. Next game is on Wednesday. Senior year really is fun!!! You girls with little ones, enjoy them now but do look forward to the future. Teenagers are fun most of the time. I don't really have any exciting stories right now but I think I may post a few fall favorites soon so come back. By the way after my rants about mental pause and hot flashes, I went to Marshalls and bought the cutest ( of all things) flannel PJS. I am sweating at night but they are adorable. Pink, soft and so comfy. They comes in all colors. You should all get some.

Painting

2008-10-28T10:31:00.000-07:00

It may be awhile before I post again. I am painting my Dinning Room and it is a project. It is now a very dark green and so far I have just gotten to the primer. Still trying to figure out my new color. It changes daily with my mood. I have decided to have my family for Thanksgiving so at least I have a deadline to get it finished. Will keep you posted. Have a great Happy Halloween week!

Pumpkin Head

2008-10-23T13:31:00.000-07:00

Yesterday was an interesting day. My Preschoolers took a trip to the Pumpkin Patch. This is sponsored by a local church here. They have games and stories for the children and then they get to pick out a pumpkin. It is all very sweet, but there were a few folks working there that were a little strange. For example the story telling lady had on Glaucoma sunglasses ( and she was reading inside) she had a lot of trouble reading the books to the children. She also sang a song with them that had a lot of Hee Hee Hee's and Haw Haw Haw's in it and it was scary to me. Not the actual song but the way she sang it! Then the "Pumpkin Man" was dressed in a very large Jack o lantern suit with a whole pumpkin cut out for his head, it was kinda strange too. But I know these people are older volunteers who lovingly give their time but for goodness sake someone should give them a little instruction. Anyways it was fun.
Then last night we had senior night for Soccer. It made me a little sad that my son was playing his last home game. I have enjoyed every minute of his sports career and I will miss it next year.
Well, tonight I am off to eat at my favorite Mexican restaurant with friends. Have a great Thursday!!!

YUCK

2008-10-21T13:37:00.000-07:00

I really don't have time to post today because I am off to a soccer game. But I just need to say this. I HATE hot flashes, migraines and whatever phase of mental pause I am in right now. May this all pass soon!!!!!

A Little Scary

2008-10-19T17:50:00.000-07:00

Sorry I have not posted in awhile. I have been sick with a serious cold. Much Better now. I have a story for you. Tuesday night I was at home with teen daughter and son. It was a bout 2:00 am and my phone rang. You know that is never good. It was my neighbor who is a little bit eccentric and a recluse at the same time. Her husband died about three years ago and she has never been the same. Anyway she called to tell me that she had just woken up and looked out her bedroom window (which has no curtains) and she saw 4 men trying to get in her window. She said they had long hair and flannel shirts on. Well, at first I thought she must be hallucinating, but lo and behold she was not. The police came and said that was the sixth report of the night in our area. They had tried to open 4 of her window and went through everything in her car and garage. the police said they had probably been there about 30 minutes. Poor thing she is so scared now she can not sleep and is trying to hire a security guard to come stay in her yard at night. It is really sad how desperate people are these days. So ladies lock up and turn on your alarms if you have them. I guess sometimes we need a reminder to be a little cautious.

Other than that my week has been ok. Our High School Homecoming was canceled due to rain so we will be doing that on Monday night. We did get to squeeze in a parade Friday. I worked like a dog in the yard Saturday putting out pine needles and bulbs and pansies, and if I do say so myself, it looks pretty darn good. I will try to get a pic of my neighbors yard. I think I mentioned in a post before that they had built a graveyard for Halloween, well now they have added orange trees that light up and a huge inflatable pumpkin carriage with some sort of monster driving it. Oh, it also lights up and makes noise. I will have to be discreet in my picture taking I don't want to appear to nosy, but honestly it is something to see.
Have a great week.

R.I.P. Charlie

2008-10-13T11:11:00.001-07:00

Charlie was my youngest daughters' cat, he was only two years old. We rescued him from a horrible home when he was 5 weeks old. My daughter always wanted an orange or white kitten, so he was the perfect one. When my oldest daughter came home this weekend she accidentally ran over him.The vet thought he was going to make it but we had to have him put to sleep today. So sad, he was a sweetie. You really do not know how much you are going to miss a pet until you no longer have them in your life. If any of you that are reading this have a special pet in your lives go give them some extra attention today. We will miss you buddy.

His cutest sweater!

Cute little kitten.

Napping was his favorite hobby

Here he is in his festive Halloween Shirt. ( this is the only animal we
have ever dressed)

His favorite Sonic toy.

Award For ME!!!

2008-10-06T11:10:00.000-07:00

Thank you Monogram Teacher for this award. How great that you think I am deserving of the Kreativ blog award!

The Kreative Blogger Award requires that you list 6 things that make you happy and pass it on to 6 other bloggers.

1. Spending a whole day with my 3 children.

2. Warm Chocolate chip cookies.

3. Porch Time with my friends

4. Handwritten Notes.

5. A Clean House.

6. A crisp Fall Day.

I now send this award to:

Call the Preppies In

Life is Better with a cute Outfit

Polka Dot Mom

My Cup to Yours

Etiquettely Correct

Warm Pie Happy Home

Decorating for Fall

2008-10-04T10:17:00.000-07:00

This is the most beautiful day we have had in NC in a long time. I am so ready to put out the pumpkins and mums and spruce up my yard. Below you will see what I think would be great. ( And one not so great). I am getting ideas, if my house turns out cute I may have to post a picture to you.
Cute

I think I can do this on my porch in my urns.

Makes me wish I had a picket fence

So Pretty if I could remember to water it.

THIS IS CRAZY!!!!!!! If you click on it it enlarges and it is kinda scary in many ways.

Hope everyone is enjoying their Saturday.

I Love Awards!

2008-10-03T15:39:00.000-07:00

Thank you for this award, Pink Putter! Getting Awards makes me so happy. Thanks for reading my blog.

Characteristics for the Smile Award:
1. Must display a cheerful attitude. ( I really try to do this, sometimes my family tells me I am too positive, well someone has to be!)
2. Must love one another. ( I do this even if people are not nice)
3. Must make mistakes. (On a daily basis)
4. Must learn from others. (This is an easy one for me)
5. Must be a positive contributor to blog world. (I need to do this a little more, life got kinda busy lately)
6. Must love life. (I do.)
7. Must love kids. (Really I love kids more than adults)

These are the rules for The Smile Award:
1. The recipient must link back the the award’s creator
2. You must post these rules if you receive the award
3. You must chose 5 people to receive the award after receiving it yourself
4. You must fit the characteristics of the recipient of the award
5. You must post the characteristics of a recipient.
6. You must create a post sharing your win with others.
7. You must thank your giver.

Okay so now I will bestow this award to:
The Preppy Pearl: She always has a cheerful outlook and appreciates her life. Her stories are great.
Abnormally Normal- Always fun to read with such great stories and you can tell she loves her life.
Monograms and Manicures- This is a wonderful blog, If you have never read it you must, what a great gal she is full of life
Preppy Mama- Seems to love her life and has it all together, she give great ideas and her blog makes me smile.

Hemstitch and Hydrangea- Just because this cute blogger is back!!! Good Luck to you and cute Jack!

I love all of these blogs and it is just so much fun to have friends in the blog world.

Good Hair Day or Bad

2008-10-02T11:15:00.001-07:00

Wow, I can't believe how long it has been since I posted, with school starting it has gotten incredibly busy. Well, I finally found time to get my hair cut and highlighted. I have been wearing it in a pony tail forever. Yesterday I decided I would wear it down to Preschool, and I thought it looked pretty darn good. Even my co-workers commented on how much they liked it. Feeling good about myself I went out to the car line to get the children out of the car and the first one gets out takes a look at me and says "Why does your hair look so bad today?" I say " Is it because it is not pulled back?" and she says, "Yeah, you need to do something about that." Oh well, (what does she know she is only 4)
I am loving this cool fall weather we are beginning to have, it makes me want to get my fall clothes out and snuggle up in warm sweaters. I usually have trouble finding jeans that fit But I found the greatest pair at Old Navy last night for only $20.00, yes $20.00!!! They fit great and I love them. I also got a great red sweater from Marshalls right next door. Also, Eddie Bauer is having a great Fall sale right now. I'll try to post some of my favorite things soon. Happy Fall!!

Fast Week

2008-09-24T11:23:00.000-07:00

Wow, I can't believe it is already Wednesday! I had a great weekend with the youth at the beach.

A few memorable moments: The plan was to FOLLOW each other in our four vans down to the beach, our youth leader had other plans and passed the lead van and guess what, got lost on the way down!, our house was a little too small for 34 people, had two tiny bathrooms, we got our leader material about ten minutes before we had to teach it, I got about six housrs of sleep the whole weekend.
Great moments: wonderful kids and a very moving weekend in many ways, got to spend loads of time with my own teenage son, and my teen daughter was so happy surrounded by her friends, as usual I renewed my spiritual being by just being around all the youth and leaders and the great times we had.

Now back to reality: Soccer games, volleyball games, some crazy fool stalking my daughter at college, husbands birthday, Preschool lessons, laundry, dinners, new kittens in the neighbors yard trying to be kidnapped by my children, dead battery on car, time to plant bulbs and spruce yard, Oh, and my neighbor for some reason has started to put up Halloween decoration in his front yard. He had constructed a very lifelike cemetery with mounds of mud and tombstones in the front. I swear I am gonna take a picture an post it for ya'll to see. I really thought he was putting a dog fence up in the front. It is serious business.This could be a post in itself. Apparently he is trying to win Halloween house of the year!( and it is only Sept 25) Well, I'll post more on that later, as you can see it is kinda busy around here. Hope everyone is well.

Beach Trip

2008-09-19T11:14:00.000-07:00

Wish me luck, I am getting ready to leave on a high school beach retreat with 30 teenagers. It's a church retreat but say a prayer for me anyway. I think we have a great weekend planned, but I am sure I will have plenty to post about when I get home. Hope you all have a great weekend. Happy Friday!

Teenage boys have no brains!!!!!

2008-09-12T16:55:00.000-07:00

Honestly, what the hell is wrong with teenage boys minds? Tonight has been ridiculous, no actually the whole day has been. My son (A senior in HS) tells me on Monday that he has decided to have the soccer team spend the night at our lake house after the football game on Friday. Well, I am not stupid and I knew they might not be angels while they are down there but I said okay with many stipulations. (Keep in mind that our house is close to his Nana's and grandfathers house, 2 aunts and uncles houses and a police officer lives only about a mile away.)
This afternoon I get a call from a friend of mne who is a teacher at school just to let me know there are rumours floating around the school that he is having a big party. So I inquire to son and he says no its just the guys. Well lo and behold I then call around to people and find out that the whole damn thing was put on Face book and the whole school had been invited. I am so hurt, mad, pissed, embarrassed, everything else you can think of. The part I hate most is the lack of trust this now brings up. I am not new to this I have three teenagers, I should know by now that I should not believe anything.( Although my first one was an angel and no trouble at all, thank you god) But I keep on getting suckered into this sweet feeling for them because I am a mother and sometimes we have on blinders and I guess I just choose to see the best. Dear Lord!!!!
After much conversations and texting I tell him a big grounding is a coming. After a while he calls to tell me he really feels bad about the whole thing and he has decided not to stay at the lake and he will be on home. Yeah, well we will see. I still have watchdogs posted at the lake house and nobody is getting in there. (not real watch dogs, just my relatives).
But honestly do you ever get to let your guard down, I guess not, no matter how much you love them you always have to be on guard. I am telling you it is just exhausting sometimes. I remember thinking when they were little how hard sleep deprivation and the busy busy days were. That was nothing. Don't get me wrong I know things could be much worse. I just like for things to remain calm, and I really do not like everyone in this small town to know what is going on in my life. But I guess I'll hang in there because next week, or maybe tomorrow it will be something else.
Well, now I think I'll go see where he hid the liquor. ( just kidding)
What a start to the weekend. I hope it goes uphill from here. God bless any of you who are facing hurricane weather. This is nothing compared to that. Hope you weather it okay.
My next post will be on a lighter note,I hope.

Looking Forward to Halloween

2008-09-10T10:08:00.001-07:00

Every year my family and I have Halloween Party. It started out very small with a few friends stopping by for Hot dogs on their trick or treating trek. Now about ten years later it has turned into Hot dogs, Chili, Oyster Stew and whatever I feel like throwing out there party. It is for all ages in the neighborhood and beyond. Can you tell I am already thinking about it. Sadly though this year it may coincide with a Friday night Football game. But nonetheless I will share with you some great Halloween finds.

Great finds from Crate & Barrel

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Fine Stationary has too many cute Halloween Invitation, really too many to post, but I'll show you a few:

These cookie from Eleni's are too cute. If you have never eaten one of their cupcake you really should splurge and have one. They are the best ever. Yes they are expensive but what a treat.

Look at these cute items from Williams-Sonoma

These are from Touchstone

Finally these are from Ballard Designs

Wow, that was the longest post ever, can you tell it is a rainy day and I am stuck inside. Well hope you enjoyed my finds!

Cutie Patooties

2008-09-08T14:52:00.000-07:00

My Preschoolers are just so cute and sweet this year. There are a couple that will keep things lively. Just thought you all might get a kick out of this. This week my theme for circle time, art, and everything else is MANNERS!!!. Won't that be a hoot. We have lots of fun games to play and different books and songs but my favorite day will be when we practice setting a table with a cloth and candles and flowers, etc..... I think you can never start too early. Although some days I think if I could just get them to keep their spit in their mouth or stop pooting during story time I would be accomplishing a lot. My boss pulled out some old class pictures, I'm talking 12 years old. In one of them we (the teachers) had on matching T-shirts (really tacky), but in another one I had on a sweater that I am ashamed to say I pulled out last year an wore on a snow day. Granted it is a classic Black watch plaid print but I do believe it is time to clean out my closet!!! Anyway, I fell very blessed to have a job I love and look forward to going to every day. I think being around kids really keeps you life in perspective and helps you not take yourself too seriously. Hope everyone had a great Monday!

2008-09-08T10:19:00.000-07:00

I have been tagged by Tres Poshe Preppy to list my 5 least favorite words.
So here goes:

1. Puke- I hate the thought this word brings to my head.

2. Stank- Have you ever heard anyone use this word? It sure stank in there. I am not even sure it is a word, but I don't like it.

3. Booger-No explanation needed

4. Hate- Too strong of an emotion for me most of the time

5. Pissed- Sorry but I really think this word is used way to much, and yes sometimes by me when I am P'd off, but I really don't like it.

I have tagged the following people for their least favorite 5 words: Pink Lemonade and Peonies
The Preppy Pearl , The Prep E Girl

Fun Weekend!!!

2008-09-01T12:06:00.000-07:00

Wow, what a whirlwind weekend. Friday began with a high school football game. I once again worked at the concession stand. Can I tell you some people are just rude. Remember this is a concession stand and not a four star restaurant. A few people actually brought back their popcorn and ask for a refund because a). it was too salty, b). it was not salty enough, or c). it just did not taste fresh. (we Had just made it). I do not know what they were looking for but I say just eat it and have a good time or better yet just pop your own Orville and bring it with you. I was exhausted after the game. When I came home had a house full of teenagers and my sweet college girl was home. We all had a good night.
The next day my son went to visit college friends and spent the night. I thought what a fun thing to do until he rolled in Sunday with a speeding ticket. (The fun just never stops.) My daughter said it must suck to be you sometimes. But what do you do, just reprimand and find a good lawyer. Stuff happens.
On a better note my two girls and I went shopping. Will post later what we found, some of it was amazing great deals, some of it was just really great stuff. We had a very full day hitting malls and outlets. What fun.
Sunday I headed down to South Carolina to see my sweet nephew get baptized, and my Mom went along so that was a good day too. I have done a lot of cleaning out, rearranging and, organizing this Labor Day. So all and all it has been very productive and fun. Hope you all had great weekends as well.

Busy Busy Monday

2008-08-25T09:54:00.000-07:00

Hi All,
Today is my first day back to Preschool. I was so happy to see my teaching friends, our kids do not come back until next Tuesday. I am hosting the soccer team dinner tonight for 18 boys and then working the concession stands. This is also the first day of High School for my Senior and Freshman so forgive me if you don't hear from me in a while. I will catch up soon.

A Diamond Award

2008-08-23T15:29:00.000-07:00

Well I am just thrilled to receive a diamond award from the precious Monograms and Manicures . It is such an honor and I am still surprised that people read my blog. Bless your hearts.

When you are nominated for this award, there are a few rules that go along with it. They are as follows:

1. Put the logo on your blog

So, here it is

2. Add a link to the person who awarded you

I linked to her along time ago darling and interesting blog, check out my links!

3. Nominate at least 7 other blogs

4. Add links to those blogs on yours

5. Leave a message for your nominees on their blogs

Now Here are the blogs I nominate:

1- The Preppy Pearl -I read hers everyday, cute stories, and she is near and dear to me!

2- Shortpumppreppy- Such a fun blog and love her comments, think we would probably be friends in the non blogging world.

3. Tresposhpreppy- I'm sure she has lost of awards but hers was the first blog I ever read, fabulous!

4 . Puttin on the G.R.I.T.S. - A fun, fun, read, really shares her exciting life. I love your opinions!

5.The Pink Putter- What an interesting blogger, shares her life with us and it is fun to read

6. Little Bow Prep - She puts so many great finds in this blog I love to see it everyday

7. Pink Lemonade and Peonies - I adore the name of the blog and it is always a great read, just make me happy.

There are so many blogs I love but I supposed I must limit myself to seven I am going to have to find some other awards to give. I really do love all of you bloggers and I know there are so many that I have not even found yet. Thanks Thanks for the award!!!

Tuckertown Lake

2008-08-22T10:11:00.000-07:00

Check out my Lake Website. I am trying something new to market some property I have. Do you all know any good tips for doing this type of thing. I will take all the comments I can get. Look under Lakefront in my Links. Thanks girls. Have a Great weekend. (We start high school football tonight WOOOOHOOOO)

One More Thing

2008-08-21T11:26:00.001-07:00

After looking at the Swoozies web site I thought I would share some great sale finds with you. These are all on sale and would make great little gifts to have around. Very cute.

Sweet Bloggers and Kind People

2008-08-21T11:06:00.000-07:00

Who knew that there are such sweet people out and about in the blog world. I thought this might just be a little hobby of mine, but it has turned into much more. I love all the comments ya'll leave. Such dear sweet people. Now let me tell you about today! I am getting college girls car fixed and waiting to pick it up, she is using my car in college and calls to say that is is broken down, do I panic? No I remain calm and it all turns out okay because she has the dearest landlord that helps her with the tow truck and recommended a garage.( Must send her a gift card from Swoozies). Then I go to pull out teenage sons car( because the dog is loose and will only come back across the electric fence if you go and pick him up but that is another story) and his car will not start. So I call my sweet neighborhood gas station and they kindly come and pick it up and fix it. After many checks later I now have 2 out of three cars fixed. You know things always seem to happen at one time but the way I look at it is that a least there are nice people to help yoi through it. Another sweet person is a fellow that came to look at my back screen porch. For years I have always wanted to turn it into an open area that leads to a patio, but since kids have started college I have put it on the back burner, well, my H seemed to think it was the time to do this and evidently called porch man to come by and give an estimate. I politely told him thanks but this is just not the time in my life for renovations. He cleverly realized that I was going through some stuff ( after a phone conver with my H) and said he would be happy to do this for me andI could just wait to pay him next year. Is that so sweet especially with the economy and all. I still said no thanks but very nice gesture. I know the devil lurks around but God always wins out and thank goodness for that. You all are probably going to think i am crazy after reading all this! But I do believe that I am going to be thankful today for the good , kind people in the world and be on the lookout for them. Have a great Wednesday!

Soccer Seating

2008-08-19T12:07:00.000-07:00

Well, it is my favorite time again when I can go and watch my kids play sports. Teen son is playing soccer and teen daughter is playing Volleyball. The only bad part of this is the stadium seating(when I am not working in the concession stands, which is actually a good thing when you are not feeling so social, and it is a great place to watch the game from) Anyways, I found these cute stadium seats and blankets for the upcoming season. You can tell I am already thinking of cool Fall weather.
H ave a great week.

Back to School

2008-08-16T11:48:00.000-07:00

Today my Kitty just went back to college. I already miss her. We had such a wonderful summer together. I know it is selfish to want her to be here but she really lights up the house when she is home. Sometimes it is like a lighting bolt light but most of the time a ray of sunshine. What a great time she is going to have this year. Children really are fun when they are grown up. Well, they are really fun all the time but some more than others. I will miss you KK but I will see you soon. Now I am really ready for my school to start back. Nothing cheers you up like four year olds. My other kids will be in high school, so that will also be an adventure. Summer was fun but I am looking forward to a great Fall ya'll. KK I know you are reading this so know that i love you, have fun, be sweet and safe. And always remember to take the White Horse Taxi!!!

Rainy Day

2008-08-13T13:59:00.000-07:00

Today has been sort of a lazy day even though I started out with a Dr. appt. at 7:30 this morning. After I got home I was kinda stuck right here. My college daughter is getting ready to go back to school Saturday. I am going to miss her so much. It has been wonderful haviing her here for the summer. I know she is ready to go back and have some fun. My son is almost finished with s school Good thing since school starts in a week. Teenage boys take a lot of patience and energy, but he is a fun, sweet son. My teen daughter is sooo excited about High School. It should be a fun year. I suppose I am ready to go back to Pre school. I need to find some cute totes to carry my things in. Accessories are just a fun thing to brighten my day. I thought these were cute at Susan Tower Totes.

EBAY

2008-08-12T12:45:00.000-07:00

I have been obsessing over eBay lately. I had someone bid on an item and win it. I was so excited until the jackass did not pay me for it. How disappointing. I am disillusioned with the whole thing now. Anyway, my week so far has been okay. I had to rent a car yesterday while my daughter's is in the shop.The only thing they had was an Impala. Now I am not a car snob and excuse me if you have an Impala but it is just not well suited for me. I feel like I am sitting way down on the road and the interior lights are very bright red and quite a distraction. I asked if I could come in and trade it during the week and guess what? It is the nicest one they have. Lordy, Lordy, I have to drive that thing to Durham tomorrow, I hope I don't wreck the rental!.
Well. High School activities are in full force so it feels like school has already started. I realized that I am going to have a lot of free time this year with one in college and two in high school. I do not know if I am going to like it. I work part-time but now I am thinking about full time. We will see. I wish I could turn my sewing into a full time business. It seems like when you reach your forties you should have everything figured out, but not so in my case. I don't think I have ever been more questionable about what to do. Forgive me if this post is boring, I am really sort of just typing to myself!
It is a beautiful day today, feels like fall. I guess I should get off this computer and go for a walk. Have a great week.

Some of My Faves

2008-08-09T05:38:00.001-07:00

This website has some really great items. I got a catalouge from them and thought I would share some with you. The rug is definantley going in my kitchen. I also thought if you have to use reading glasses in the summer you may as well look chic. ( you over forty reader know what I mean. I used to put sunglasses over my readers, not only was that tacky but very uncomfortable.) These would be great gifts. Room Service.

I am ready to sew

2008-08-08T17:26:00.000-07:00

This site has the cutest fabrics. It is listed as kids fabric but I think they can be used for any age. I have posted some of my favorites. You would never know it but blue and yellow are really my favorite colors, but I am a sucker for pink and green too.I am ready to sew some comforters and pillows! Oh, the site is called Warm Biscuits.

Really Cute

2008-08-07T15:15:00.001-07:00

This is a cute website called Periwinkle, I just stumbled upon it. I love this jewelry case. I will show my other favorites soon. Love blogging, but I gotta life too.

Fun Lake Day

2008-08-07T08:27:00.000-07:00

I took a bunch of teenage girls down to out lake house yesterday and they had a great time. That is the easiest way to entertain teenager and it wears them out. So I was laying on the dock in my little lounge chair. It was hot as the dickens and I thought it would be a good idea to get in the lake and cool off. I can not stand to touch the bottom so I threw in a float and thought I could maneuver myself onto it gracefully. I was wrong, the moment I got on the darn thing flipped over. I got cooled off but I did the one thing I have fussed at may kids for incessantly, I HAD MY CELL PHONE IN MY POCKET!!! Luckily I had a spare old one at home and I spent the better part of last night trying to activate it. I did not realize how attached I was to having a phone. I have just come back from a good walk with my friend. That makes you feel so good to get some exercise. Nothing else going on today except a lot of laundry and marking dates on my calender for the upcoming school year. Have a Great Thursday!

Busy Busy

2008-08-05T14:03:00.000-07:00

Today has been super busy. I had a church meeting last night, it lasted for three hours. Today I had to type up all the minutes and distribute. Doesn't seem like a lot but It took me forever to get my address book figured out trying to consolidate a group. But I finally did it. Then while I was on the computer I decided to catch up on my e-mails. Ran my errands today too.I think I have had enough computer time today. I am going to dinner and a movie tonight. Tomorrow I am off to the lake for some relaxation with my daughters and friends. It is so blessed hot I will probably getting in that nasty lake water. I don't like water where you can't see the bottom. I am going to stock up on some People magazines and just zone out for the day. Have a good Wednesday!

Great Concert

2008-08-04T05:54:00.000-07:00

What a great concert. Taylor Swift was adorable and Rascal Flats was better than I expected. I was not sure how I would like lawn seating but it was the best. We had a fantastic night. I think I am going to try to go to more concerts, I had forgotten how much fun they were.The teen girls had a blast and then all spent the night here. Teen son also had friends spend the night so I was up til about 2:30 making sure every one was in the right rooms. A little tricky, but it all worked out. So, I have had 2 late nights in a row and I am a person that needs 8 hours of sleep a night. I think I have has about 6 in the last two nights. I will be turning in early tonight. Well, off to run some errands and pay some bills. Have a great Monday.

Looking Forward to a Good Night

2008-08-03T12:28:00.000-07:00

We are getting ready for the Taylor Swift Rascall Flatts concert tonight. Should be fun, my good friend T is going and TD is taking 5 friends. We have lawn seats and it is supposed to be a beautiful night. TD is still running a low fever but we decided since we have had this planned forever she can just dose up on Advil and make it through. Can you tell she is my third child? I would have not even gone if it was my older one. It is nice to be older and wiser. After the concert, the girls are spending the night, I have for warned them of the fever but they are okay with that. Hope we don't start an epidemic!!
This started out as a nice Sunday but after a really wild blow up from the A, everyone at our house is a little ruffled to say the least. Son took off to the lake as well as older daughter. Thank God TD and I have something fun to do. I am not sure where my life is going but for the first time ever in my life I will be glad when summer is over and everyone is back on a routine. I am ready to go back to work and I am ready for my OD to be at school so she can have some peace. I hope that the A will travel, travel, travel and get the help that is needed. We've tried everything once already but finally realized that A has to want help for it to work. Lord help me to do the right thing for me and my children. This is not the life I ever planned for or wanted but I am trying to figure it all out. Kinda Sucks!!!

I Love Target

2008-08-02T13:41:00.000-07:00

Took the girls shopping today. We found some really cute basics at Target. I got three T's, orange, yellow, and of course basic black. I really wanted a white one but they didn't have my size. You can never have too many good white T's. I love to have good basic clothes. We also found some cute things at Marshall's (my favorite store right along with TJ Maxx) It has been a fun day. Now it is raining so time to snuggle up and watch some movies. We found an old one called Parenthood with Steve Martin. I love it. The grandmother has the best saying, It goes something like this- Life is like a roller coaster sometimes things are slow and steady like when you are riding up and then things get wild and crazy when you are coming down. Wouldn't life be boring if things were always the same? Something to think about. Well, have a great weekend.

What a Day!

2008-08-01T15:47:00.000-07:00

Well, today was eventful, just when you think summer is winding down and you are going to have a few lazy days, BAMMM! I woke up this morning to get teen boys out of bed for 8:00 soccer camp. That took forever, apparently they had been up a little to late to be early birds, but finally got out of the house. (I really only have one boy, but there are always multiples at my house. Then I peeked in at TD(teen daughter) and she had a fever of 103.5 with chills and headache, this would have just been written off as a virus but she had just gotten over this about 2 days ago and was sick again. After a trip to the Dr. and a negative Mono test, he says just to watch her should be fine in a few days.
We are going to a Taylor Swift concert on Sunday and she is taking 6 friends, ( I have 1 friend going with me) so I really hope she is okay. My 20D(20 year old Daughter) Had to have my car today as I was taking hers to be fixed. She also had a Dr's appt today that I wanted to go to her with and will be happy when the results are back from it.So I take the car to my reliable car shop and leave it feeling very confident that they will fix it and it will be ready by the afternoon.
After a big trip to the grocery store (remember I have 3 teenagers) I get a phone call from Jim at the garage asking if I can run down to see him for a minute. I say, oh there must really be something bad wrong with my car. He says yes there is and we caused it. These folks had lifted my car up just a little too far in the garage and low and behold they dented the roof and sunroof!!!! Luckily they are heavily insured and will be paying the bill too get it fixed. Have you ever? Sometimes such simple things can turn into really big deals. It is not that I am mad about it, it is just one more thing to put on my to do list.
Now we are out a car for awhile, and of course my H(husband) is out of town.
But on a lighter note, I did get in a good walk with my friend this morning before it got so hot. It is ridiculously hot here, and I did fix a decent dinner tonight. I also squeezed in a visit to Marshalls. A little retail therapy helps sometimes. I didn't but anything but I did some serious putting in the buggy. Sometimes when I do that it makes me feel like I am shopping but then I just leave it all behind. Well, hope you all have a good Friday and a great weekend!

Least and Most

2008-07-31T15:03:00.000-07:00

My Least Favorite Things

1. Rude People
2.Humidity
3. Those huge piercing people have in their ears.
4. Bad Hair Days(They reallydo make you feel Icky,to the point of pulling out the scissors, which by the way is not a good idea.)
5. Traffic Jams
6. Running Late
7. Pumping Gas
8. Telemarketers that call at 8:00am
9. People that always have to have the last word, and I mean always.
10. Pouting or holding a grudge
11. Liver of any kind
12. Licorice

MyFavorite Things
1. Flowers
2. Weddings
3. My family
4. The beach (sitting at the edge of the ocean in a low beach chair right as the sun is going down with a glass of wine in your hand)
5. Porchtime
6. Girls Nights out
7. Any sporting event my children are involved in.
8. Church
9. Shopping
10. Baking at Christmastime
11. Sewing
12. Reading a really good book

My Meetings

2008-07-31T10:04:00.000-07:00

So, not to get too personal but I do attend Al-Anon meetings due to a family member's addiction. Can I just tell you that I really don't know why I go sometimes. The meetings are filled with people who have been coming for around 20 years. Their significant alcoholics have been sober for quite some time now. Dear Lord I do not want to be doing this for twenty years. I am not judging anyone because I am sure that it takes some people longer to heal than others, but the stories they tell are sometimes crazy. I am thinking if someone has been sober for 20 years and you still can't get along with them, maybe it is time to get the hell out. Perhaps alcohol is not the only problem. This is all pretty new to me as I have only been going for about 6 months. There are many there that my heart goes out to but there are some that really would probably make me want to drink. My daughter goes with me so we at least have each other to talk to when we leave. God Bless them all.

Cute Blogs

2008-07-30T19:57:00.000-07:00

Okay, so I think I am going to like this blogging stuff. I have spent an hour going through other people's blogs and adding them as my favorite if I enjoyed reading them. I feet a little strange at first though because i really don't know them, but I guess that is the fun part. You get to "meet" new people and share their adventures. There are some really cute people out there. Well, I will share some creative stories with anyone who reads my blog (not really sure if anyone will, but that's okay).

Survey

2008-07-30T09:04:00.000-07:00

This is another survey that I was tagged to do by "The Preppy Pearl"!

What were you doing ten years ago?
I was PTA Pesident at the Catholic School my kids attended for the second year in a row ( because heaven forbid another mother take over, or maybe I was just doing a good job haha!) Who knows!? But I did enjoy it! My youngest daughter was 4, my middle son was 8, and my oldest daughter was 10. I was also an award winning Den Mother for the Boy Scouts haha, my biggest memory from that was marching in a Veterans Day Parade through a lightning storm (YIKES!). I remember driving for endless field trips at as well as working at the school sometimes. I was very involved with my kids! I loved every minute of it! I was also dealing with my oldest daughters ADD, and her sweet 5th grade teacher. The woman really deserved a teacher of the year award, she was just a little hard in the dicipline department! Every day after I picked up my 4 year old from pre-school we had grilled cheese sandwiches! I loved 10 years ago!

5 things on my to do list today
1. Go get lunch
2. Walk
3. Get laundry done
4. Talk to my best friend who is living at the beach for the summer
5. Get rid of this migrane

4. Snacks you enjoy
1. Popcorn
2. Peanut M&M's
3. Ice Cream
4. Salsa & Chips

1.Place you have lived:
1. North Carolina

5.Five things you would do if you were a billionaire
1. Give 10% to God
2. Share with my family
3. Buy a beach house
4. Travel
5. Give to mission work
and for one more, id do some shopping...alot of shopping!

Have a great Wednesday!

New Kitchen Design

2008-07-29T14:23:00.000-07:00

I love this table I found at Ballard Designs. I am thinking of redoing my kitchen and this might be the look i want. The web site for this is under my links. I am still figuring out how to do all this.

2008-07-29T10:09:00.000-07:00

Hi everyone,
Today is the first day of my blogging. I am going to do a survey that my cute daughter is sending me to get me jump started on this. I am in the throes of summertime and it has been a fast one. Right now I am taking care of sick teenager,(just a virus), praying that my almost senior son gets through summer school, and enjoying time with my college daughter before she goes back to school. All the while my husband is working at home in his "office". It is always just crazy around here.
I have been trying to learn to sell on e-bay and have been a little successful. Today I am listing a lot of Bob Timberlake prints. I have know idea why we have so many of these around our house. I thjink at one time my husband bought every artisit proof he could get his hands on, well now we are going to sell, sell, sell.

So on to the survey:

1.What is in the back seat of your car right now?
Books

2. When was the last time you threw up?
Last year

3. What's your favorite curse word?
Hell

4. Name 3 people who made you smile today?
Katie, Sam, and Sarah
5. What were you doing at 8 am this morning?
Fussing

6. What were you doing 30 minutes ago?
working on this blog

7. What will you be doing 3 hours from now?
Hopefully walking

8. Have you ever been to a strip club?
no

9. What is the last thing you said aloud?
OK
10. What is the best ice cream flavor?
Sliced Lemon

11. What was the last thing you had to drink?
Diet Sundrop

13. What was the last thing you ate? .
.Chicken

14. Have you bought any new clothing items this week?
No

15. When was the last time you ran?
The other day crossing the street so I wouldn't get hit by a car, I really don't run.

16. What's the last sporting event you watched?
A softball game

18. Who is the last person you emailed? .
A church member, about a reception we are giving

19. Ever go camping?
.When I was little

20. Do you have a tan?
Not a very good one

21. Do you drink your soda from a straw?
Love to if it is in a styrofoam cup.

22. What did your last IM say?
Ummm, i don't im

23. Are you someone's best friend?
Yes

24. What are you doing tomorrow?
God only knows!!

25. Where is your mom right now?
At her condo

26. Look to your left, what do you see?
.Christmas lights from my son's balcony

27. What color is your watch?
.Silver

28. What do you think of when you think of Australia ?
Kangaroos

29. Would you consider plastic surgery?
nope

30. What is your birthstone?
Garnet

31. Do you go in at a fast food place or just hit the drive thru?
Drive thru

32.How many kids do you want?
I have 3

33. Do you have a dog?
Yes

34. Last person you talked to on the phone?
My mom

35. Have you met anyone famous?
no

36. Any plans today?
Run errands, cook dinner, go to a meeting

37. How many states have you lived in?
Just one

38. Ever go to college?
Yes

39. Where are you right now?

In my daughters room
40. Biggest annoyance in your life right now?

41. Last song listened to?
Coldplay Viva la something

42. Are you allergic to anything?
No

43. Favorite pair of shoes you wear all the time?
Flip Flops

44. Are you jealous of anyone?
no

45. Is anyone jealous of you?
Who knows?

46. What time is it?
1:30 pm

47. Do any of your friends have children?
Yes

48. Do you eat healthy?
Most of the time

49. What do you usually do during the day?
Take care of my house and family, and teach Preschool when summer is over
50. Do you hate anyone right now?
No

51. Do you use the word 'hello' daily?
Sure do

52. How old will you be turning on your next birthday?
40 something

53. Have you ever been to Six Flags?
Yes

54. How did you get one of your scars?
Stepped on a piece of glass